Friday, March 30, 2012

Conversations with Isaiah 03.027

Jeremy: After Mommy and Micah get ready we're gonna go somewhere.
Isaiah: Where?
Jeremy: Its a surprise!
Isaiah: Is it Target?

For the record, the zoo is MUCH better than Target.

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Micah @ 1 Week

Micah is one week old today. I forget how fast time goes with a newborn...I'm already halfway through my "maternity leave". I wonder if I will actually go back to class next Wednesday. It's going to be so easy to skip to stay home with my baby!

Isaiah is doing wonderful with his brother. He does such a good job being gentle with him (around him, we need to work on) and gives Micah lots of hugs and kisses. Isaiah did purposefully elbow Micah in the head once, but even then he was gentle about it (LOL!). It was more of a pushing boundaries thing and since he promptly got a timeout we haven't had any more trouble with that. Listening to US is a different matter, but that's pretty much to be expected.

We went to Micah's checkup yesterday. Little stinker was already up 6oz from his discharge weight! Three more ounces and he will be at his birth weight (apparently something they like babies to reach by 2 weeks). He's as good an eater as his big brother was! I'm also relieved that the pediatrician is serious about the lack of antibiotic given before he was born (ie none) given that I was strep positive with Isaiah. I know that the bacteria comes and goes and apparently my water breaking *just* before Micah was born is a good thing, but we just don't know if he was exposed. The doctor isn't necessarily worried about it, but she wants us to seriously keep a close eye on him the next few weeks and bring him in right away if anything seems off. With everyone else kind of glossing over it, it makes me feel better that she discussed it with us.

Sleeping has gone relatively well so far. He wakes up on his own somewhere between every 2-4 hours to eat, usually right around 3 hours. So I'm not terribly tired, but I do have trouble waking up. Once I get moving, things are good. He does sometimes eat more often during the day, but that's much easier to deal with.

Gotta go...he's waking up!

Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Conversations with Isaiah 03.026

Isaiah: Mommy, are we going fast?
Me: No, buddy. There's a lot of cars on the street.
Isaiah: When the cars are gone we can go fast now. Cuz you don't have a baby in your belly.

Sunday, March 25, 2012

Mommy Thoughts

I forgot a cardinal rule when talking about babies: DO NOT talk about anything they're doing so well that may lead to you sleeping better, because they won't do it at night for you!

Saturday, March 24, 2012

Chicken dog

My 70+ pound dog is afraid of my 7-something pound newborn. Terrified, actually....wouldn't come near him once he got a good sniff of him. This is going to be an interesting dynamic for a while.

Conversations with Isaiah 03.025

"Maybe he's crying cuz I have stinky feet"

Friday, March 23, 2012

Naturally....

I seriously had no intention or interest in natural childbirth. It's a preference, and my migraines have taught me that I prefer to not be in pain if I can help it. Not that migraines and childbirth are comparable, but whatever. Obviously, since I was READY to be induced I have no problem with medical interventions during pregnancy (except c-sections, but that's mostly because I don't want to go through that recovery!) Well, I survived one. Barely ;)

So, once again the medication that was supposed to prep my cervix started my labor. One dose this time, which I was curious about how that would play out...I'd had 2 doses last time before labor started. Once things started, they went FAST! NO ONE was ready for it!

Micah was born right around 6 hours after I got one dose of the cytotek stuff. I told that to one of the nurses on the recovery floor and her mouth kind of dropped open.  I was 4 cm just before 2:00, then I went from 7 cm to having a baby in under 30 minutes. No wonder the doctor didn't make it! My DOULA barely made it in time! I think there were only 4 nurses in the room when Micah actually came. The bed didn't even get broken down, I didn't use the stirrups, I was laying on my side pushing (even though they told me to wait) and then they finally let me roll on my back and push him out.

The poor nurses were REALLY trying to get me to wait until the doctor got there to push Micah out. Later this bugged me, because if I had to wait for the doctor why couldn't they give me the epidural? Once I got to 10 cm there "wasn't time for it to take effect"...but we still had to wait. Let me tell you, once I realized it hurt LESS to push than to breathe through those damn contractions, there was no stopping me. A nurse "caught" Isaiah. An older lady that had never had to catch a baby before...poor thing!

And apparently when I was saying things in my head (like "screw this I'm pushing anyway") it was NOT really in my head. Oh well.

Once Micah was born they took him over to the table to check him out. I didn't get him on my belly right away like I did with Isaiah which totally freaked me out at the time because I thought something was wrong. Now I'm disappointed but we figured since there was no doctor to be in charge the nurses really wanted to make sure the baby was okay. I can't blame them for that.

Anyway, the doctor eventually got there, I think I said "thanks for coming" or something silly. I birthed the placenta which strangely felt a lot rounder than I imagined (I guess I thought it would be more like a deflated balloon?) and then got a couple stitches. Thankfully I didn't tear too badly even though there was no one "down there" trying try to keep that from happening.

I never did get the antibiotics for being strep B positive. I guess it wouldn't have mattered anyway because you need them a few hours before the baby's born. They assume he's fine since my water broke right before he came out so he didn't spend a lot of time in the nirth canal, but it's still kind of nerve wracking.

I feel like this is all over the place, not a coherent story.

Anyway, we're home now! I'm so relieved to be back. I need to try to get the little one to eat something because he hasn't had much. OHMYGOSH my boobs huuuuuuurt. I think he's starting to wake up, so we may try to get some eating done.

Wednesday, March 21, 2012

Introducing: Micah

Micah Elliott Spencer.
Born 2:55 am.
8 pounds.
21 inches.

Who needs doctors? Not this guy!


Conversations with Isaiah 03.024

Isaiah: Can I hold Micah?
Jeremy: No.
Isaiah: He's mine!

Monday, March 19, 2012

Conversations with Isaiah 03.023

Me: Its our last night without the baby.
Isaiah: Maybe he will come out tonight.
Me: Yeah, but if he doesn't they're going to give me medicine so he will come out.
Isaiah: They're gonna kick him out!!

Friday, March 16, 2012

Conversations with Isaiah 03.022

Apparently, Isaiah and AnnMarie just used kitty litter in their cookie recipes. Because baking soda = kitty litter.

Baking with a 3 year old

It's a bad idea to leave a 3 year old alone with a bottle of vanilla extract....

Tuesday, March 13, 2012

Conversations with Isaiah 03.021

(After I told Isaiah he needed to ride his trike closer to the edge of the street...)

Isaiah: Mommy, you're bossy.
Me: I'm your Mom, I'm allowed to be bossy.
Isaiah: Hahahahaha, you're hilarious!

Monday, March 12, 2012

Conversations with Isaiah 03.020

Isaiah: Mommy, is the baby coming out yet?
Me: No, Buddy. He isn't coming yet.
Isaiah: He's a turd!

Poor kid isn't born yet and already his brother is calling him names.

Saturday, March 10, 2012

Conversations with Isaiah 03.019

Jeremy: You don't know what you want for dinner.
Isaiah: Yes I do. I want chicken-a-la-king!

Saturday, March 3, 2012

Conversations with Isaiah 03.018

Isaiah: Mommy's my favorite.
Me: I'm your favorite what?
Isaiah: Ummm, you're my favorite meanie.